High-Conflict Divorce Consulting

As a High-Conflict Divorce Consultant, Rosana works only with one party to the separation and divorce. Rosana does not work with the identified high-conflict individual. 

Rosana understands that trauma associated with the actions of living with and separating from a high-conflict individual. Post-traumatic Stress Disorder is common among people who are living with or have separated from a high-conflict individual. Rosana is a strategy partner who assists the 'healthy' person in developing the skills required to maintain balance in the family structure, ensuring the emotional, psychological, and mental safety of all individuals.

The term 'narcissist' is a common term when describing a person who appears to be instigating conflict without reason. Unfortunately, with society's overuse of the term, an actual sufferer of a narcissist is often deemed as overreactive. Not all high-conflict people are narcissists. In fact, almost every person alive has a propensity for displaying narcissistic tendencies. The differences between a true narcissist, a selfish person, and a person with narcissistic tendencies are often confused. Thus, the term narcissist is used by society to describe all of them.  

Rosana has spent decades trying to work out the mind of a high-conflict individual, in its truest form. Not surprisingly, this is a difficult task. Rather than trying to work out the mind, predicting the behavior is more plausible and easier to manage. Many high-conflict individuals share common traits that enable their actions to be predictable, making situations more manageable. 

Narcissism is rarely used in the professional realm due to oversaturation in the 'court of public opinion'. The High-Conflict Individual (HCI) is the preferred term and is more acceptable terminology, especially in the court system. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a recognized disorder; thus it carries stigmatization in various professions. To learn more about NPD, click here. 

Rosana has solid knowledge of NPD and its effects while in a relationship and post-separation. The HCI can disarm through their charm, which has a lifelong negative impact once the relationship begins to sour. Unfortunately, for an HCI this tends to be as soon as their partner is no longer useful for them. An HCI is not selective of their targets and will often use their children to have their needs met, effectively decimating their own family. 

While it may seem that you are entrenched in a war you have no control over, day after day, this is far from the truth. No one has to live the rest of their life in a constant battle, and peace can be obtained, even if the high-conflict person in your life still chooses conflict. Rosana can help reduce legal fees by working alongside your team, assist with documentation, and help you develop parenting plans, as well as guide you in understanding how to regain control of your future.  

HIGH-CONFLICT CONSULTING IS AVAILABLE INTERNATIONALLY